Comments for Whims and Realities... http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com ...for thoughts which are better written than said out loud! Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:19:38 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Do I say sorry?! by Amrit http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/do-i-say-sorry/#comment-774 Amrit Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:19:38 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=584#comment-774 Wow!! Good to see you back again! And of course no need to say sorry..it actually doesnt make any sense! :) Congrats for your new endeavor! I am sure you will do fantastic. I loved PS I Love You...dunno if you watched the movie as well..the movie is also amazing! I read Rich Dad & Poor Dad few years back..terrific book! Hope you come out of that emotional turmoil soon. Waiting for more posts! As usual! :D Wow!! Good to see you back again! And of course no need to say sorry..it actually doesnt make any sense! :)

Congrats for your new endeavor! I am sure you will do fantastic. I loved PS I Love You…dunno if you watched the movie as well..the movie is also amazing!
I read Rich Dad & Poor Dad few years back..terrific book!

Hope you come out of that emotional turmoil soon.

Waiting for more posts! As usual! :D

]]> Comment on 3 years of absolute bliss!!! by Tamanna http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/04/15/3-years-of-absolute-bliss/#comment-773 Tamanna Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:29:10 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=554#comment-773 ... And my waterworks start again ;) Awesome, awwwesome post girl! … And my waterworks start again ;)

Awesome, awwwesome post girl!

]]> Comment on Confusion Confusion!!! by Tamanna http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/08/07/confusion-confusion/#comment-772 Tamanna Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:22:06 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=578#comment-772 Thanks woman.. I finally know too now :) Thanks woman.. I finally know too now :)

]]> Comment on Do I say sorry?! by Tamanna http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/do-i-say-sorry/#comment-771 Tamanna Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:21:06 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=584#comment-771 didn't u cry when u read erich segal's love story? i sobbed for hrs.. lol! didn’t u cry when u read erich segal’s love story? i sobbed for hrs.. lol!

]]> Comment on Do you hate someone?! by Anon. http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/01/09/do-you-hate-someone/#comment-770 Anon. Sun, 08 Nov 2009 05:41:19 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=488#comment-770 So.. If my Best friend got with my ex knowing full well I was strung up on her, how does this reflect self-hate? I'm not trolling, I just want to understand. More so that I can let go of this pain, rather than bathe in it. So.. If my Best friend got with my ex knowing full well I was strung up on her, how does this reflect self-hate?

I’m not trolling, I just want to understand.

More so that I can let go of this pain, rather than bathe in it.

]]> Comment on Do I say sorry?! by sourabh http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/do-i-say-sorry/#comment-769 sourabh Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:54:08 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=584#comment-769 hey sakshi ..it's been always gud and gr8 to c u here again, foa, congrates for new job and being pro. again :) hey i hav also started reading rich dad and poor dad ..and i hav read first chapter of it ..bt i didnt find interesting ..now u hav also appreciate it so i'll recollect myself and will read tht again :) hey sakshi ..it’s been always gud and gr8 to c u here again,
foa, congrates for new job and being pro. again :)

hey i hav also started reading rich dad and poor dad ..and i hav read first chapter of it ..bt i didnt find interesting ..now u hav also appreciate it so i’ll recollect myself and will read tht again :)

]]> Comment on Do I say sorry?! by anamika http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/do-i-say-sorry/#comment-768 anamika Fri, 23 Oct 2009 08:38:42 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=584#comment-768 Hi, Hope you are doing well! This is Anamika Tiwari Chief Editor at Webneetech.com. At present we are interviewing entrepreneurs and now we are starting another section to feature (interview) bloggers and their blog on webneetech.com Would like to feature your interview on our website. I was not able to find any contact details of yours so using this comment box. Please let me know your email id or else contact us on i.webneetech@gmail.com, so that we can send you the questionnaire and feature you on webneetech.com Please visit www.webneetech.com to know more about us. Regards, Anamika Webneetech.com Hi,

Hope you are doing well! This is Anamika Tiwari Chief Editor at Webneetech.com. At present we are interviewing entrepreneurs and now we are starting another section to feature (interview) bloggers and their blog on webneetech.com

Would like to feature your interview on our website.

I was not able to find any contact details of yours so using this comment box. Please let me know your email id or else contact us on i.webneetech@gmail.com, so that we can send you the questionnaire and feature you on webneetech.com Please visit http://www.webneetech.com to know more about us.

Regards,
Anamika
Webneetech.com

]]> Comment on Do I say sorry?! by me http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/do-i-say-sorry/#comment-767 me Thu, 22 Oct 2009 12:45:26 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?p=584#comment-767 hey sakshi! welcome back! i must say your posts were missed badly in spain! cheers, me hey sakshi!
welcome back! i must say your posts were missed badly in spain!
cheers,
me

]]> Comment on Quote Unquote by Sourabh http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/quote-unquote/#comment-766 Sourabh Sat, 17 Oct 2009 11:52:09 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?page_id=250#comment-766 i liked all of them..... i liked all of them…..

]]> Comment on Free Relationship Counseling by Mae http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/free-relationship-counseling/#comment-764 Mae Sun, 11 Oct 2009 01:01:00 +0000 http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/?page_id=443#comment-764 My guy and I have been together for 3 years. He is divorced. They were in several business ventures together prior to divorce. Yes, they are still business partners. She knows about me and we are cordial with each other. They have a 10 year old daughter and the daughter adores me as I her. When it’s my guys turn to have his daughter, he picks her up and the first thing she wants to do is to come to my house and stay over so they do. My guy and I do not sleep together when his daughter is around. Business started getting bad and my guy started getting into real financial binds. I don’t have money, but I helped him out best I could (cooking for him to make sure he ate and occasionally giving him household stuff. I must say, he has never asked me for anything. I even offered that he could give up his apartment and move in with me if he wanted to. He said no because he did not want to jeopardize our relationship and he had to maintain his independence. Well, it started getting so bad for him….all the way around that his financials got worse (business and personal)…his ex-wife approached him and said that her mom (his ex-mom in-law) was more than willing to help him out – a loan….she’s loaded! First couple of times he said no and scraped it up elsewhere. Then he finally had to “borrow” from her. The ex mom-in-law is also responsible for her deceased daughter’s 2 kids – girl 12, boy 14. The boy is very rebellious and gets into trouble a lot. He has run away a couple of times. Well then the ex-wife and the ex-mom in law started calling my guy, all stressed out…they can’t do anything with the boy. In the mean time my guy’s daughter starts having trouble in school….academic not behavioral. Now my guy is being pulled back into that situation in order to help out with the nephew and with his own daughter. They were going to send the boy to live with another grandfather in another city so the ex mom-in law says to my guy, “if you go with me to take him, you wont have to pay back the money that you owe me”. Now get this, my guy is considering it. Here is another one, his daughter is off –track so she is out of school for a month. The ex wife tells him that they (the 2 of them) need to spend more time with the daughter as a family before she goes back to school. She has some business deals in the works so if they go through she will have the money. She has talked him into taking the daughter on a mini vacation…out of town; He does not see anything wrong with it. I told him that divorced people do not take vacations together when one of them is in another committed relationship. He said yes they do when there are no feelings there for the other person. I could not believe what I was hearing. He did not understand and said that I was being emotional when I said to him, “how do you think that makes me feel?’ “not to mention the mixed message and false hope that you are sending to your daughter that her parents are still together or are getting back together”. He says to me that he loves me, that he and his ex are not getting back together and that his daughter knows that it won’t happen. About a week later, the ex called him and said that her electricity got shut off in her place and that she and the daughter were in the dark and cold and could she come stay with him. He asked why she couldn’t just bring the daughter to him and that she should go to her mom. She said that she and her mom were not on good terms at the moment. So he said ok….When he called to tell me about it, I went off and told him that she knows his daughter is his world and she used the daughter to get to him. We bantered back and forth until he finally told her that she could stay one night and that he was leaving to come to my house for the night and that’s what he did. The next day morning she was still there and stayed most of the afternoon….sleeping….not feeling well. He was not there. I told him that she has an agenda to get him back, he says no What should I do? I know he loves me and I love him. My concern is, is this the start of an agenda that the ex and her mom are putting together? What comes after this? What’s next? Should I let it ride or should I just walk away now? Am I being unreasonable? Desperately seeking advice! My guy and I have been together for 3 years. He is divorced. They were in several business ventures together prior to divorce. Yes, they are still business partners. She knows about me and we are cordial with each other. They have a 10 year old daughter and the daughter adores me as I her. When it’s my guys turn to have his daughter, he picks her up and the first thing she wants to do is to come to my house and stay over so they do. My guy and I do not sleep together when his daughter is around. Business started getting bad and my guy started getting into real financial binds. I don’t have money, but I helped him out best I could (cooking for him to make sure he ate and occasionally giving him household stuff. I must say, he has never asked me for anything. I even offered that he could give up his apartment and move in with me if he wanted to. He said no because he did not want to jeopardize our relationship and he had to maintain his independence.
Well, it started getting so bad for him….all the way around that his financials got worse (business and personal)…his ex-wife approached him and said that her mom (his ex-mom in-law) was more than willing to help him out – a loan….she’s loaded! First couple of times he said no and scraped it up elsewhere. Then he finally had to “borrow” from her. The ex mom-in-law is also responsible for her deceased daughter’s 2 kids – girl 12, boy 14. The boy is very rebellious and gets into trouble a lot. He has run away a couple of times. Well then the ex-wife and the ex-mom in law started calling my guy, all stressed out…they can’t do anything with the boy. In the mean time my guy’s daughter starts having trouble in school….academic not behavioral. Now my guy is being pulled back into that situation in order to help out with the nephew and with his own daughter.
They were going to send the boy to live with another grandfather in another city so the ex mom-in law says to my guy, “if you go with me to take him, you wont have to pay back the money that you owe me”. Now get this, my guy is considering it. Here is another one, his daughter is off –track so she is out of school for a month. The ex wife tells him that they (the 2 of them) need to spend more time with the daughter as a family before she goes back to school. She has some business deals in the works so if they go through she will have the money.
She has talked him into taking the daughter on a mini vacation…out of town; He does not see anything wrong with it. I told him that divorced people do not take vacations together when one of them is in another committed relationship. He said yes they do when there are no feelings there for the other person. I could not believe what I was hearing. He did not understand and said that I was being emotional when I said to him, “how do you think that makes me feel?’ “not to mention the mixed message and false hope that you are sending to your daughter that her parents are still together or are getting back together”. He says to me that he loves me, that he and his ex are not getting back together and that his daughter knows that it won’t happen.
About a week later, the ex called him and said that her electricity got shut off in her place and that she and the daughter were in the dark and cold and could she come stay with him. He asked why she couldn’t just bring the daughter to him and that she should go to her mom. She said that she and her mom were not on good terms at the moment. So he said ok….When he called to tell me about it, I went off and told him that she knows his daughter is his world and she used the daughter to get to him. We bantered back and forth until he finally told her that she could stay one night and that he was leaving to come to my house for the night and that’s what he did. The next day morning she was still there and stayed most of the afternoon….sleeping….not feeling well. He was not there. I told him that she has an agenda to get him back, he says no

What should I do? I know he loves me and I love him. My concern is, is this the start of an agenda that the ex and her mom are putting together? What comes after this? What’s next?
Should I let it ride or should I just walk away now?
Am I being unreasonable?
Desperately seeking advice!

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